Coitus and
menstruation
Holy Quran said
in
[the cow versa ]
[222] They ask thee concerning
women's courses. Say: They are a hurt and a pollution: so keep away from women
in their courses, and do not approach them until they are clean. But when they
have purified themselves, ye may approach them in any manner, time, or place
ordained for you by Allah. For Allah loves those who turn to Him constantly and
He loves those who keep themselves pure and clean.
Coitus and
Menstruationin Per menopausal Women
INTRODUCTION
Population statistics suggest that in the USA more than 12 million women
are currently within their per menopausal transition years. Since 19791-3 it has
been increasingly recognized that on average the 7 years before menopause - more
recently identified as the per menopausal transition - are characterized by a
wide range of changes in menstrual patterns. In Treloar's major work3, 25,000
menstrual cycle years of data were prospectively recorded and analyzed,
following three generations of women. Treloar showed the broad pattern of
variation in menstrual cycle length.
The
reproductively fertile years are characterized by relative stability in cycle
length and a relative trend toward a 29.5-day cycle. In contrast, the first 7
years and the last 7 years of menstrual flow are characterized by a wide
variation in the cycle length. Women are likely to have extremely long or
extremely short cycles or some combination of the two. It is precisely this
sudden break in the stable pattern of cycling that serves to indicate that the
menopausal transition has begun3.
Since Treloar's
work, other studies have affirmed the relationship between abnormally long and
short cycles and per menopausal status among women after age 352,4. Some
women experience increases in the days of menstrual flow while others flow for
fewer days. Some flow more heavily, while other have a scantier flow. Such
changes in menstrual flow during the transition period are thought to signal the
impending menopause and to be related to changes in sex hormone levels.
The potential
relationship of sexual behavior to uterine function was a relatively new
consideration in 1979, when the longitudinal study of this report was initiated.
Masters and Johnson suggested the possibility of increased contractility during
orgasmic response5,6.
Although their work suggested such a mechanism in women, it had been preceded by
work with animals. A number of mammalian species have shown uterine contractions
coincident with and shortly after copulation (reviewed in refs
7-9).
There were observations of an increased myometrial motility during human
menstruation10.
Increased impedance of uterine arterial blood flow peaking at the onset of
menstruation has also been reported11.
However, none of these studies has examined the relationship of these uterine
variables to coital activity.
In one study of
498 consecutive female infertility patients those who acknowledged coitus during
menses showed a significantly higher incidence of endometriosis than patients
who said they abstained from coitus during menses. Both occasional and frequent
coitus during menses showed a positive association with the incidence of
endometriosis while such coital activity was unrelated to pelvic inflammatory
disease12.
A review of our
data as well as the literature led us to explore whether per menopausal women
who engaged in coitus during menstruation were more likely to experience heavier
or longer duration of menstrual flow. Considering the uterine physiology,
altered uterine contractions during menstruation could lead to a more forceful
expulsion of menses from the uterine cavity as well as retro-grade menstruation.
The increase in the duration of flow may be a reflection of the slow
regeneration of the endometrium caused by these contractile forces. Since
increased menstrual flow is a recurrent problem in the menopausal transition
years, the Stanford Menopausal Study population offered a logical population in
which to explore this question.
METHODS
Procedure
Recruitment of
subjects followed a 5-min television news interview or similar radio or
newspaper announcement in which the senior author invited women in the San
Francisco Bay area to participate in a study of the menopause. The study was
described as a way for women to contribute to knowledge about healthy women as
they approach and reach the menopause. Although the principle aim of the
Stanford Menopause Study was to gather data about female sexuality and hormones
during the menopausal transition period, we were careful to dilute awareness of
this goal by collecting data on a wide range of topics throughout the early
months of the study including the data reported here.
At every
interview, women filled out a questionnaire and also engaged in face-to-face
interviews as part of a protocol that included a sequence of standardized tests
such as blood pressure measurements. At both the first and the third interview,
women were asked about the kinds of changes they had observed globally in their
menstrual flow patterns as they entered and moved through the menopausal
transition period. For menstrual flow: was there more blood, less, mixed
patterns, or no change? For duration of menstrual flow: were there fewer days,
more days, variable, or no change? At the first interview, several (3%) had not
menstruated in several months as shown in Table 2. At the second interview,
women completed a sexual history questionnaire that had Likert-scaled questions
on a variety of sexual elements that included frequency of sexual arousal and
orgasm during coitus, overall satisfaction with their sexual relationship, use
of fantasy, masturbation, and so forth.13
Sexually-active women were invited to a more time consuming and demanding third
interview that subjects were told would focus on sexual life. Interview 3 was
conducted at the senior author's office at Stanford University where each was
interviewed and had a blood sample drawn.13,14
Subjects
A total of 205
presumably healthy women were enrolled in response to the original call for
subjects. One hundred and sixty gave informed consent and completed the initial
interview with a research assistant. Of these 153 (96%) were per menopausal as
evidenced by symptoms of: hot flashes, and/or night sweats or a noticeable
change in menstrual cycle length, flow or pattern (see refs
13-16
for previous reports from this study). These data were collected 8 years
before the first publication of normative follicle stimulating hormone values as
per menopausal transition markers.17 Women
were neither hysterectomized nor ovariectomized, and had not used contraceptive
or replacement hormones within the prior 6 months. Of these, 121 women completed
the second interview and 57 completed the third interview. While women were not
asked to explain why they did not continue in the study, attrition was probably
due to the necessity of having a blood sample drawn, the amount of time involved
in participating in the study, and because the third interview involved coming
to Stanford University rather than meeting a researcher locally. In addition, it
was at this point that subjects were told that the study would now focus on
sexuality; for many reasons, including celibacy, this may have affected their
willingness to continue.
At the third
interview, 56 women provided data on menstrual flow pattern and coital behavior
during menstruation: two were menopausal - 16 and 22 months from their last
cycle respectively - and provided retrospective data. All subjects were
Caucasian and had a mean (+SD) age of 48.8(+3.9). Subjects had a mean (+SD) age
at menarche of 12.8 years (+1.3), age at first coitus of 20.9(+3.9), age at
first child of 23.6 years(+3.6), number of pregnancies of 2.8(+1.7), number of
live births of 2.2(+1.3), and years of education of 15.2(+2.4). Data for
relationship status revealed that 71.4% were married, 21.4% were divorced, and
7.1% were never married. All but three subjects had a sex partner at the time of
the third interview, and the average length of ongoing relationships was 18.4
years(+10.4).
RESULTS
Menstrual flow changes
At the first
interview, 153 women completed questionnaires, and 121 of these women provided
data on menstrual flow change. Of these, 115(75%) reported globally noticeable
changes in the menstrual flow, with 81 women noting some form of increase and 34
women some form of decrease. Thirty-two women did not answer the question. These
data are presented in Table 1.
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Table 1-- Number
of women with increased (+), decreased (-), and no change (=) in number of days
and amount of menstrual flow at the menopausal transition
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Menstrual flow
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Days
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Amount
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Number of
women
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|
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Increased flow
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+
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+
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13
|
|
|
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+
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=
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8
|
|
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=
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+
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43
|
|
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spotting
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10
|
|
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=
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+
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6
|
|
|
broken healing
start and stop
|
|
1
|
|
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Subtotal
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81
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(53%)
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|
|
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Decreased
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-
|
-
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3
|
|
|
-
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=
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4
|
|
|
=
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-
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27
|
|
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Subtotal
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34
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(22%)
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|
|
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No Change
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=
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=
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6
|
|
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Subtotal
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6
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(4%)
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|
|
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No data
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32
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(21%)
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|
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Total
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153
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(100%)
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|
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Changes in the
length of the cycle were also reported by a large proportion of these women.
(Menstrual cycle length is defined as the time span from day 1 of a cycle to the
next day 1, regardless of duration or quantity of flow. Thus a `missed period'
by definition by definition is equivalent to a long cycle.) Table 2 shows that
81% of the 144 women who answered the question were aware of specific changes in
cycle length coincident with their other perimenopausal symptoms (hot flashes,
night sweats and so forth). As shown in Table 2, of 144 women, 40% noticed an
increase in cycle length, 17% noticed their cycles had become shorter and 24%
noticed a change but sometimes this was experienced as shorter cycles and other
times as longer cycles.
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Table 2
Number and
percentage of women with a change in menstrual cycle length at the menopausal
transition.
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n
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%
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Longer
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58
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40
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Shorter
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24
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17
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Mixed
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35
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24
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No Change
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22
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15
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Stopped > 3
months ago
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5
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3
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Total
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144
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99
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behavior
and menstrual flow
Interview 3 specifically focused on details of the overall perimenopausal
menstrual flow pattern to allow clearer discrimination between cycle length,
menses duration, and amount of flow with patterns of sexual behavior. Each woman
was asked `Do you engage in sexual intercourse when you are menstruating?'
Table 3 shows
the individual data that relate menstrual flow patterns to sexual behavior
during menstruation. The data were grouped according to menstrual flow patterns
with arrows designating changes in both the duration and the amount of flow:
increasing, decreasing or unchanged.
These data show
that every woman who reported both increased amount and increased duration of
flow answered `yes' to coitus during menstruation, whereas every woman who
reported both decreased amount and decreased duration of flow answered `no'.
Overall, 83% of
women who said they experienced increased menstrual flow during the menopausal
transition period reported `yes' to the behavior pattern of coitus during
menstruation whereas 90% of women with lighter and or/shorter duration of
menstrual flow reported abstention. Of 13 subjects with a mixed pattern of
bleeding change (one flow variable increased, the other decreased), 61% reported
`yes' and 39% reported that they abstained. These data are presented in Table 4
and are highly significant.
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Table 4
Change in
menstrual flow and number of women having coitus during menses
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Coitus during
menses
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Menstrual
flow change
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Yes
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No
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Increased
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19
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4
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Mixed Change
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8
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5
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Decreased
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2
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18
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Total
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144
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99
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the 56 women,
six cases, identified in Table 3 with asterisks next to their code numbers, were
more closely considered because of their comments. These six subjects commented
`rare' or `minimal' to the question concerning coitus during menstruation making
their answer of `yes' or `no' ambiguous. In an additional test these six
subjects were deleted and the analyses were repeated without them. The results
retain their significance, x2 (1,n=50)=24.7, p<0.005
Overall, 83% of
women who said they experienced increased menstrual flow during the menopausal
transition period reported `yes' to the behavior pattern of coitus during
menstruation whereas 90% of women with lighter and or/shorter duration of
menstrual flow reported abstention. Of 13 subjects with a mixed pattern of
bleeding change (one flow variable increased, the other decreased), 61% reported
`yes' and 39% reported that they abstained. These data are presented in Table 4
and are highly significant. Among the 56 women, six cases, identified in Table 3
with asterisks next to their code numbers, were more closely considered because
of their comments. These six subjects commented `rare' or `minimal' to the
question concerning coitus during menstruation making their answer of `yes' or
`no' ambiguous. In an additional test these six subjects were deleted and the
analyses were repeated without them. The results retain their significance, x2
(1,n=50)=24.7, p<0.005.
As estradiol
levels were available (see ref.15), we
assessed whether estradiol was different in the three menstrual flow groups
(increased, mixed, decreased). No significant difference was seen between the
mean level of estradiol (+SD) in subjects with increased (57.3 pg/ml+38.4),
mixed (71.7 pg/ml+39.6), or decreased (61.0pg/ml+41.8) menstrual flow,
F(2,43)=<1. Mean age in the three groups was also examined. Similarly, mean ages
(+SD) of subjects with increased (48.6+4.0), mixed (48.2+4.2), and decreased
(49.4+3.6) menstrual flow patterns did not differ significantly.
Women who
acknowledged coitus during menses were compared to those who abstained to test
whether they differed in other aspects of their sexual behavior. All but three
subjects were currently sexually active; one woman had been having coitus during
menstruation until a recent cessation of sexual activity (#85). Regularity of
coitus was dichotomized in accord with our previous studies as Weekly (W) for
those who never missed a non-menstruating week or Sporadic (S) for those
sexually active women whose prospectively recorded behavioral calendar data
showed less than weekly coitus (see refs. 14,15).
Regularity of coitus was determined using calendar data for a 4-week period just
prior to interview 4; this interview occurred 6-10 weeks after interview 3.
These data are shown in Table 3.
First, we
tested whether there were differences in regularity of coitus (Weekly vs.
Sporadic) between these two groups. Results showed no significant difference,
x2(1,n=49)=2.81,p>0.10<0.50. The women who said they abstained from coitus
during menses were not significantly more apt to be sporadic in their sexual
activity than those who acknowledged coitus during menstrual flow.
Next, we
addressed whether women who refrained from coitus during menstrual flow reported
a higher or lower frequency of orgasm than those who did not. Answers to how
often they experienced orgasm during coitus on a 7-point Likert scale (1=never
to 7=every time) were assessed. Results showed no significant difference in mean
(+SD) frequency of orgasm score between those who did not engage in coitus
during menstrual flow (5.4+1.9) and those who did (4.9+2.0).
Finally, we
assessed whether reported frequency of orgasm was different in the three
menstrual flow groups (increased, mixed, decreased). There were no significant
differences for mean (+SD) frequency of orgasm between those who reported
increased (4.8+2.1), mixed (5.6+ 1.2), or decreased (5.5+1.8) menstrual flow.
DISCUSSION
The data in
this study show a fourfold elevation in increased menstrual flow among those per
menopausal women who reported a pattern of coitus during menses compared to
those who did not (65.5% and 14.8% respectively). They also show that women who
reported that they refrained from coitus during menstruation had nine times the
incidence of diminished flow compared to those who did not refrain from coitus
when they were menstruating (62.9% and 6.9% respectively).
Previously,
researchers reported that increased menstrual flow - whether heavier flow or
prolonged length of flow - was relatively frequent; it occurred in about half of
women as they approached menopause3.
Findings in our study were similar in both samples (see Tables 1 and 3). Because
absolute quantity of flow could not be measured, this study relied on the
perception of the study subjects. However, for many of the subjects in the
Stanford Menopause Study, this increased amount and duration of menstrual flow
was clearly perceived and disturbing. Likewise, women described their own
perception of changes in cycle length and these data were not always collected
prospectively. The fact that subjects in this study recorded each day of menses
on daily calendars may have contributed to their awareness of cycle length. The
problems of recurrent heavy menstrual flow during the menopausal transition are
now recognized as a common phenomenon1,2 and
are believed to be endocrine in origin.
The
observations here suggest that if our subjects' retrospective self-reports
accurately reflect their pattern of sexual behavior, then coitus during menses
may modify menstrual flow. An alternative hypothesis is that women who were more
active sexually or more orgasmic may have been more likely to have coitus when
they were menstruating. Our data do not support this hypothesis as there was no
significant difference in regularity of coital activity (sporadic vs. weekly)
between those who abstained from coitus during menstrual flow and those who did
not. Nor did frequency of orgasm show a significant difference between groups.
Because women who had coitus during menses engaged in coitus during additional
days of their cycle compared to women who abstained , they may have had a higher
frequency of coitus. Thus frequency of coitus might also be an important
variable.
Other possible
explanations for our data are that women who menstruated for longer durations
may have been less reluctant to abstain from coitus during menses, but this
explanation would apply solely to women with increased duration and not to those
with increased flow only. Moreover, women might have engaged in coitus during
menses because they believed that coitus would contract the uterus and staunch
the blood flow. Our data suggest that, at least for per menopausal women, this
belief has no validity.
However, a
women's pattern of coital activity has previously been shown to affect other
menstrual and endocrine parameters. Delayed age of first coitus was associated
with subsequent infertility.20 Women
who had coital activity at least once a week when they were not menstruating
(regular, 'weekly') showed an increased frequency of normal length menstrual
cycles21,22,
higher levels of luteal phase estrogen23, and a
higher frequency of fertile type basal body temperature graphs23,24 than
women who were sporadically active or abstaining.
Because coitus
during menses may alter physiological events affecting menstruation in per
menopausal women, the next question concerns a putative mechanism. In order to
relate sexual behavior to uterine blood flow, it is useful to consider the
physiology of menstruation. This was quite elegantly detailed by Bartelmez in
193718 and
further described in 195919. These
classic papers reported the characteristic sloughing of the endometrium as it
passed out through the cervix and vagina during menstruation. The subsequent
endometrial "micro-cuts" that formed from broken blood vessels then underwent
clotting and regeneration. Bartelmez described the nature of menstrual flow - 1
day of light flow with one day of heavier flow - which usually alternated twice.
Finally, sequential physiological processes during the 1 to 4 days of waning
menstruation concluded the menstrual squeal.
The literature
shows that there are various factors that contribute to uterine contractility
during sexual activity. Among these are orgasm, arousal, oxytocin, the
prostaglandins and semen, or some other unidentified factor or substance. Are
the changes in menstrual flow secondary to the thrusting effects of the penis,
the effect of the ejaculate, or some other factor that triggers the contractions
of the uterus? The role of orgasm was initially addressed in 1991 in
experimental studies involving the stump tail macaque9. Female
orgasm appeared to be the trigger for uterine contractions in this species.
Sexually related uterine contractions occurred with or without the presence of
penile intromission, provided the female showed evidence of sexual climax
through the acceleration of her heart rate and subsequent species-typical facial
expressions. Dominant females showed more frequent sexual climaxes during
copulation that lower ranked females. Thus, not every copula Tory event led to
uterine contractions. The climactic uterine contractions in these macaques were
distinguished from an initial telemetrically recorded uterine response of lesser
magnitude than occurred to penile thrusting alone. The telemetrically recorded
pattern of "climactic contractions" of the uterus was more powerful (higher
amplitude) and continued for several minutes after the penis was withdrawn
before returning to baseline. Both copulation leading to orgasm and orgasm in
homosexual pairings without penetration produced uterine climactic type
contractions.
The work of
Masters and Johnson5,6
suggests a similar potential in women. Moreover, both abstaining and
non-abstaining women in our study reported orgasm to be a commonly occurring
experience at coitus. Likewise those with heavier flow were no more orgasmic
than those with lighter flow. The behavior of coitus during menstruation appears
to be the relevant issue.
Increases in
heavy flow and the increases in uterine contractility could provide an adverse
combination leading to retrograde menstruation. This may be an important
consideration regarding the etiology of endometriosis and would support the
findings of Filer and Wu12.
Admittedly, published data on the incidence of intercourse during menses appear
to be very limited. The only reference located was Filer and Wu's and they
reported that slightly over half of the sample of 498 women acknowledged coitus
during menses frequently or occasionally. The rest of the women they studied
said they abstained12. Our
data were similar with 48% saying that they abstained. Other causes of menstrual
anomalies are well recognized; these include thyroid dysfunction, drug use and
psychogenic pathology. However, because ours was a study of healthy women these
factors are not relevant.
Could coital
activity during menses increase uterine contractions? If so, these accentuated
uterine contractions during menstruation could stimulate the expulsive forces
that could be interpreted by the woman as increased heaviness of flow.
Mechanical explanations of such an effect seem plausible. Heaviness of flow,
combined with uterine contractility, can both express the menses as well as push
them into the peritoneal cavity. It is less likely that the increased blood flow
is due to an endometritis because the endometriosis/menstrual-coital activity
data of Filer and Wu do not support an increase of pelvic inflammatory disease
in women who acknowledged coitus during menses12.
Lengthening of menstrual flow associated with coitus during menses might be a
result of the effects of the contractile forces at orgasm.
Our data as
well as those of Filer and Wu12
show that an increased frequency with which women report experiencing sex
during menses does not parallel the extent of pathology. Both those who
frequently , as well as those who occasionally, reported engaging in coitus
during menses were substantially more likely to present with increased menstrual
flow at per menopause in our study and endometriosis in theirs. It may be that
the perception of abstention is a clear one while the perception of "occasional
menstrually occurring coitus" is subject to the need for better quantification
in future studies.
Oxytocin is a
known hormonal by-product when nipple suction is sufficient to elicit milk
during lactation. Vaginal-cervical stimulation is a potent stimulus for oxytocin
secretion25. In
1994, Carmichael and colleagues reported that plasma oxytocin levels in women
and men rose in close temporal relationship to orgasm induced through
masturbation26.
The precise
mechanisms involved need elucidation. However, the relative hyper menorrhea
associated with coitus during menses, as well as the increased incidence of
endometriosis12 point
to potential mechanical processes that exacerbate menstrual flow. This could
support the philosophy expressed by the Moslem-Judaic Codes that proscribed
coitus during menstruation. Data on the flow habits of these groups have not
been published.
If coitus is
exacerbating menstrual flow during the time of life when women are vulnerable to
hysterectomies because of heavy menstrual flow, this new information might be
useful in reducing the incidence of such surgery. Likewise, if coitus during
perimenopausal menses produces such effects, it is reasonable to study the same
question in younger women. Moreover, further investigations into perimenopausal
hyper menorrhea should yield more complete information. We encourage other
investigators to gather and examine similar data in a variety of populations.
Comment :
: When divorce
becomes necessary, it is not permissible for the Muslim to implement it any time
he pleases; he must wait for a suitable time. According to the Shari'ah, this
suitable time is when the woman is clean following her menstrual period or the
period of perpetual discharge following childbirth and before her husband has
resumed sexual relations with her, or when she is pregnant and her husband is
aware of her pregnancy. The reason for prohibiting divorce during menstruation
or the period of puerperal discharge is that, since during such periods sexual
intercourse is haram, the idea of divorce may come to a man's mind because of
sexual frustration and nervous tension. He is therefore advised to wait until
his wife is clean and to divorce her then, if he is intent on divorce, before
the resumption of marital relations. Just as divorce during menstruation is
haram, it is likewise haram between menstruation periods (i.e. "the period of
purity") if the husband has had intercourse with his wife following the
termination of her previous period. Because it is possible that she may have
become pregnant from this union, the husband may change his mind concerning
divorce when he knows that his wife is carrying a child, desiring to stay
married to her for the sake of the embryo in her womb. However, when the wife is
in the period of purity but he has not had intercourse with her following the
termination of her menses, or when she is pregnant and he is aware of it, he
will be able to ascertain that his intention to divorce her is the result of
deep-seated antipathy, and accordingly is permitted to carry through with the
divorce. In the Sahih of Al-Bukhari, it is transmitted that 'Abdullah bin Umar
mentioned [such a]
matter
to the Messenger of Allah, he became angry, saying: "He must take her back. If
he still wishes to divorce her, he may do so when she is clean of the menstrual
discharge before having intercourse with her, for that is the period of waiting
which Allah has prescribed for divorce" He referred to the ayah, "O Prophet,
when you (men) divorce women, divorce them during the prescribed
periods."(65:1). Another version of this hadith reads: "He commanded him to take
her back and then divorce her when she is clean from the menstrual discharge or
(otherwise) is pregnant." A question now remains: If a person does divorce his
wife during these prohibited periods, does the divorce become effective or not?
The prevailing opinion is that it does become effective, although the husband
will be considered sinful. However, some jurists hold that, it does not become
effective, as Allah did not legislate it so and whatever is not legal cannot be
correct or enforced. Abu Daoud, on sound authority, has transmitted that when
Abdullah bin Umar was asked, "What would you say if a man were to divorce his
wife during menstruation?" he related his own story of divorcing his wife during
her period